If they have legitimate emotional issues, maybe they should see a psychiatrist.
They should not be yelling at you, in person or by text message, multiple times per day.
If you think really hard to remember his true eye color behind those anime deer ones, the guy is literally always hiding from you.7. Idk what’s worse: the fact that he doesn’t realize that snooty candlelit restaurant pics are for Instagram, or the fact he thinks that anyone cares. Not only is getting through all 24 of his drunk Dave Matthews Band concert Snaps an arduous task with no reward, it also makes him That Guy who might evaporate if he doesn’t document every vaguely significant moment of his life, whether it’s actually interesting to other people or not.
The amount of brain gymnastics you’ll have to do to convince yourself that he has a personality somewhere and his whole existence isn’t reduced to just sleeping, eating, and sending the same foggy abs pic to 12 girls is just not worth the effort. Or just making you sit through the longest Snap Stories in history. TBH, if he can’t bother to move it to text and only ever engages when he’s on the app anyway, he’s just not that into you :( ooooooor will end up being that guy who thinks it’s normal to not text for four days, which is a hell best avoided. Get you a guy who treats every one of your Snaps as a 🚨.
If you text your partner and it takes them ages to respond, yet when they are with you, they are never off their phone, that may be something to think about.
Taking a long time to respond isn’t a big deal, but lying about why you weren’t responding is.
People get tired, and there gets to be a point where the fighting is too much.
Sure, he actually sent it last night, but if there’s no lead up or remote hint, he’s throwing you to the “omg did that girl just look at surprise peen at work” wolves. Someone who is rude to their family, is not long-term relationship material.If you are thinking this relationship could last, they will start treating you like family one day, and that could or could not be a good thing. Sometimes they come within the first week of dating, while others don’t show their face until 6 months in.Not every red flag is as visible as physical abuse either.If the people they hang out with are not nice people, you should probably reevaluate things.