I think that dating Black Greek men can be fun but it depends on that person's maturity and level of commitment to another person especially if groupies begin to come out of the woodwork.
I think that it is hard today to date and enter into a quality relationship, be they Greek, non Greek, educated, etc.
The only difference is that they now have 3 letters across their chest.
We used to fight constantly about why I was doing so much with my Sorors, and I'm not talking about general hanging out and partying.
I also found it interesting that when I wasn't doing anything with the Sorors, he was always out with his friends and they would come to me saying how he was complaining that we didn't spend enough time together.
It wasn't like he didn't know well in advance that I'd be in a meeting.
As for the groupies, it's up to the member to keep them in check.
If you know you have a boyfriend or girlfriend (yes, sororities have groupies too) it's your responsibility to control yourself around them and make them aware the you're in a relationship and you're not going to have any foolishness.